"Uncontrolable" situations

My password had been changed by an "intruder" and i totally forgotten bout it =.=
It took me quite some time doing the "try and error" method to get into my account.. Thank goodness i remembered :)

I didnt plan to update my blog these few days, cause i have nothing special to write about.. but an incident strike me and made me think deeply =.= No one special to tell :( so might as well just blog bout it..

Oh ya.. tomorrow will be our half year anniversary =.= I know.. half year is like nothing.. its not even one year yet.. But at least we've come this far :) How long will it last? Honestly, i dont really care

Sometimes what we do is beyond our control.. As in : will i be happy, wealthy and healthy forever?
Some people will think that u can be healthy if you take care of your health, you can be rich if you use your money wisely, and you can be happy if you think of happy thoughts =.=
But sometimes the things which happen is not what we expect to happen
eg: An accident, 3 killed 1 survive..
Whose fault is it for the accident to happen? Yours or mine?
You knock me for your car lose control, you didn't want it to happen..
My family members died eventhough they put on seatbelts =.=
And yet you only had minor injuries..

Issit fair? No :(

Sometimes what had happened is unpredictable..
I take a healthy diet, breath in fresh air.. Avoid going to places infected with Influenza A(H1N1), and yet i have cancer???
Can our life be control by us?


Do we really have to listen to what people say?
eg: If you were in a coffee shop withyour wife and her friend ( a girl )
Your long lost friend saw you and went to talk to you.. Unintentionally ask whether your wife's friend is your wife =.=
Nono.. put it this way

eg: You and one of your collegues were couples before.. But you broke up, and had a new girl friend..
You kinda hide everything from letting your new girlfriend know (who knows why)
So once the new girlfriend found out many hidden secrets of course she'll get so angry and damn pissed with the stupid bitch rite? In short - Jealousy -
Ok, one day, you went out with your new girlfriend, she went to the toilet =.=
While waiting, you bumped into your old friend.. and he ask whether the your girlfriend was your ex for she looks like her =.=
And at that moment, your new girlfriend just came out of the toilet and heard everything..
How would she feel?
a. Cry and run away
b. Punch your friend for saying the wrong thing
c. Break up with you =.=

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In this kind of situation we know that the friend was innocent rite..
So she should just forgive and forget??
But
1. she hate her
2. she tried so hard to forget her, but someone just say she look like her???!!!!
3. speechless

Most of the things which happen in our life is really so unexpected.. it either come and go, or come and dont go(you store it in your hard disk) =.=
If you're really the type of girl who cares alot, i think you can cry all you want first, then get everything forgotten..
Who knows when will be our last day rite.. You sure don't want die sadly :(